On Jovan Belcher

Jovan and Kasandra with their baby.

Jovan and Kasandra with their baby, Zoey.

So today, after much work and insane digging and myriad sleep-deprived nights, my Jovan Belcher story ran on Bleacher Report.

Figured I’d offer some background, in case anyone cares …

I’d never written for Bleacher Report before. To be honest, until recently I hadn’t given the site much thought. It was a place, I figured, that used low-wage and no-wage writers to fill space and sell ads. Then, a few months ago, something noteworthy happened: Bleacher Report hired Mike Freeman, my friend and one of the best NFL writers out there. It also hired Howard Beck. And Kevin Ding. And Ethan Skolnick and Jared Zwerling. These were legit writers.

The site was getting better and better. It carried a seriousness it once lacked. It seemed to want original, lengthy pieces that other places weren’t offering. In this oddball age of oddball journalism, it was refreshing. Encouraging.

Then, about 3 1/2 weeks ago, an editor reached out. “Would you consider writing a piece on Jovan Belcher?” he asked. The pay was neither great nor awful. The story, obviously, was heartbreaking and mysterious and gripping. “Sure,” I said. “I’ll give it a go.”

I immediately decided I didn’t want to write the same ol’ piece: Track down the people there at the end and write about the final moments of Jovan Belcher’s life. I also didn’t want to spend much time inside the Chiefs locker room, where programmed, robotic replies (demanded by the programmed, robotic NFL) would surely ensue. No, I wanted to dig into the lives of two people—Jovan Belcher and his girlfriend, Kasanda Perkins. I wanted to find out who they were. Who they really, really were.

The first thing I did was track down numbers of relatives. I left a message on the answering machine belonging to Jovan’s mother. I reached out to his sisters and cousins and uncles and friends via Facebook. I also tracked down a number for Kasandra’s dad, and left a voice message. He was the first one to respond, roughly two days later. I told him I was trying to learn about his daughter, and asked whether he’d grant me an audience were I to fly down to Austin. “Maybe,” he said. “Let me think about it.” I called back two days later, and his phone was out of service.

I heard back, via Facebook, from one of Jovan’s aunts, who told me she’d talk only if his mother said it was OK. During this time, I thought and thought and thought and thought about driving out to the mother’s house, knocking on the door and explaining myself. “Hi, I’m Jeff Pearlman. I’m doing a story on your son, and …” I decided against it. Why? Because this was a woman who lost a son; who—literally—was in the room as he filled up Perkins with bullets. I left her a second phone message, and decided that would be that. There are times in this business when one is required to be a stalker. This was not one of those cases.

The family route, clearly, wasn’t going so well. I started thinking teammates. I called the SID at the University of Maine, who was very kind, and hooked me up with several former teammates. They were all excellent—and for a while I thought this could be the story of Jovan Belcher’s college years, and how his life as a Black Bear was very different from his life, toward the end, as a Chief. And yet … I wasn’t feeling it. It would have been sorta … meh. OK, but bland.

So I started trying to get Chief players. I went, year-by-year, through the rosters, and made a list of guys who were no longer in the NFL. See, this was key, because (I know, sadly, through experience with these types of stories) were I to utter, “I’m doing a story on Jovan Belcher …” to league PR people, a burning red flag would shoot up. There is no league (entity?) on earth as image conscious as the National Football League. There is no way teams would make players available. Heck, I’d reached out repeatedly to the Kansas City media relations department for this piece—and heard nothing. Literally, not one word. The Chiefs wouldn’t even give Bleacher Report a credential.

So—to hell with the NFL. I made the list, placing stars by defensive players, and double stars by defensive players who arrived with Belcher in 2009. Using whitepages.com and Twitter and Nexis and Facebook, I began reaching out—one by one by one by one. Truth be told, in 2013, with technology as it is, very few people are impossible to track down.

In this case, many didn’t respond. Many did. Some will go unnamed here, for anonymity’s sake. The first big moment came when a guy named Pierre Walters, Jovan’s fellow Chief linebacker, hit me back on Twitter. I followed him and asked him to follow me, so I could send a DM. I told him what I was trying to do. He told me thought of Jovan like a brother.

I asked if he’d be willing to chat.

He said he would.

Interviews come, interviews go. I will never, ever forget Pierre—as smart and insightful an athlete as I’ve ever interviewed. The same goes for Thomas Jones, the longtime running back. And Kevin Boss, the tight end. And Reshard Langford, a defensive back. The NFL is a strange place, in that—when players are active—it treats them as well-compensated labor camp prisoners, forbidden to express themselves and asked to keep all emotions to themselves. This works well for the NFL at the time—but it also results in lingering anxiousness from retirees. When you’re told not to talk, not to talk, not to talk, not to talk over the span of several years, well, it takes a toll. And, when you’re finally free, it often feels great to spew. That’s what these guys did—they spewed. About life in the league. About pressure. About pain. They all liked (and, in some cases, loved) Jovan Belcher, and seemed to embrace the idea of this story.

Ultimately, their words guided me to the direction I wound up heading. They told the story of a profession—externally glorious—that chews people up and spits them out.

That’s what happened to Jovan Belcher.

8 thoughts on “On Jovan Belcher”

  1. Your writing on the Jovan Belcher tragedy was terrific. Real insight into the traps football players fall into, insight into the concussion controversy and then telling us how you got the story itself…..wow…..just wow. Glad to have found you.

  2. I read both Belcher pieces today and appreciated them equally. Great use of your blog to add more color. Bleacher Report is lucky to have you. Maybe I’ll check it out more often now.

  3. Jeff,

    Yes, B/R has improved, especially with the hiring of those mentioned. Thank you for sharing your process. This was an online Journalism class today!


  4. Jeff,

    Good article, thank you for writing it. Watching the NFL for over 25 years, and each year my enthusiasm for it fades more and more, I believe due to the fact I see more and more that it’s main intention is one thing, to make money. Saw 12 Years A Slave and that movie brought out a lot of emotion and insight. I can understand when players compare the NFL to slavery. Because they pay the players they have the right not only to tell them they must talk (or be fined) but what to say??!! I’d be fined everyday. I do understand it’s a lot harder to realize this when you’re coming from a place of less insight and trying to put food on the table as well as enjoying the fame and all the illusions it creates. Attended over 200 games and haven’t been to one yet this year for the first time since i can remember..considering trying not to watch or pay attention all next year…that’s a hard habit to break though…keep writing great shit that makes the people think outside the box wrapped so nicely for us.

  5. You and your pals wouldn’t go two seconds without being paid. So why do you support a Web site that’s built its reputation on, and profits from, unpaid labor?

    Why do people rail against exploitation, except when it’s the other guy being exploited?

    There are real writers out there who will fight for a decent wage — not just for themselves, but for everyone.

  6. I’d never written for Bleacher Report before. To be honest, until recently I hadn’t given the site much thought.

    Thank you for that comment, but more for the article. It touches it all. Wonderfully written. Thank you so much.

  7. Well done. Points out the differences in how you go about finding and dealing with and respecting sources and someone like Pete Thamel does.

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